Author: Sam Tydeman
There are so many great reasons to settle down with someone that you love and care about. You have the companionship, the support and of course the love for one another. These are all the foundations of a long and happy relationship. However, you should never overlook the more physical side of being with someone in a committed relationship.
The thing about being a part of a couple is that over time, you start to take one another for granted, especially in the bedroom, which can lead to things get a bit dull and a bit stale and let’s face it, stale sex is not the kind of sex that we want.
So, what can you do? The answer is plenty. There are lots of things that you can try if you want to spice things up a bit and one of the best ways is with sexting. We all have mobile phones which can at least send a message, so this is an easy way to make things a little more entertaining for you both as a couple.
How do you do it though? How do you sext the spice back into your sex life?
Choose the Right Time
There is a right time to sext and choosing the wrong time can really impact on the mood. Make sure that your partner is alone (perhaps sexting at work is not the best idea) and you know that they can properly read your messages and in turn think about what they want to say back to you.
It is one thing deciding to sext your partner, but it is another actually being able to think about what you want to say. The idea with sexting is that it is a way to make sure that you can get one another hot under the collar, so simply telling them that you want to kiss them on the shoulder or nibble their ear, probably isn’t enough. Now, we are not saying that you need to go all out porn star (or at least not to start with) but you do need to take a big breath and be brave. The more you can let your guard down the more what you say will work.
Send Some Pics
When you are feeling truly brave, then the next step is to send a naughty picture or two. You need to make sure that you only do this when you are entirely comfortable and you know that your partner is someone who you can trust to keep it safe. You don’t have to go too explicit with these images, sometimes just a subtle show of skin in certain areas is all that you are going to need to do to get them feeling hot and bothered.
There you have it, the best ways to use the simple art of the sext to help your lacklustre love life and remind yourselves and each other of those early days when you simply couldn’t wait to get one another naked!