Author: Rebecca Ball
If you’re in a long-term relationship, then you’ll appreciate the importance of keeping things alive in the bedroom. You can do this by trying new things, such as positions or toys, role play and light bondage - but, you can also bring out your competitive side and spice things up with games! Bedroom games can be a new level of fun, as well as a great way to reconnect - physically and emotionally - with your lover.
You can broaden your experience, strengthen your relationship and spice up your foreplay by playing a range of games with your loved one. CouplePlay Boxes are full of surprises which can include games for foreplay, but until you find your perfect game, here’s some you can try tonight...
First to Break
A battle of wills where your inner temptress will be in her element. You both lie together in just your underwear, no distractions, just each other. The rule is that neither of you can ask for sex or remove the others underwear - the first who does, is the first to break.
This foreplay game works so well because of the incredible build up of sexual tension.
Twister with a Twist
Twister is a game we all know how to play, but it’s also a fantastic couple game for great foreplay. The closeness of the body of your partner will release the endorphins in your brain which can bring with them feelings of euphoria - you’ll be eager to finish the game. Each time you fall an item of clothing is to be removed, if you can make it to the end then the winner can decide the location or position for the guaranteed sex!
Take Your Time
Each person gets a set amount of time to dedicate entirely to one action on one part of their lover's body. It could be a 5 minute massage, a 2 minute lick, a 4 minute suck and the body part can be anywhere. The golden rule is to avoid penetration - until you can no longer bear it!
You and your lover both write down some sexual acts (ranging from mild to the more exotic) on different cards. Put the cards into a hat, or bowl, and take turns to take one out. Whoever takes the card must either perform the act or chose to have the act performed on them instead.
Take a standard deck of cards and put the picture cards to one side - face down. Decide on a sensual act per suit, for example; Hearts can be kiss, Diamonds stroke, Spades lick and Clubs massage. When you pick up your random picture card you then choose another card from the separate pile and the act should be done for your partner, for that amount of time. The one being pleasured can choose where you perform the act or leave it upto the picker.
There are lots of couple dice games, board games and internet apps available to buy online. You could even make games and challenges a part of your usual foreplay routine to ensure it will be anything but mundane in future.